The Power of Your Beliefs
Once there was a young man sitting on a park bench worried sick. He owned a business and had gotten himself into a huge amount of debt.
He could see no way out of his predicament. He was being harassed by his creditors and his vendors were demanding payment.
Suddenly, an old man sat down on the bench next to him.
“You look like you have the weight of the world on you, young fellow,” asked the old man. “What’s wrong?”
Happy to share his problems with someone, and with nothing to lose, the young business owner told the old man about his dire financial situation as the stranger listened in silence.
When he was finished, the old man said, “I believe I can help you… what’s your name?”
Quickly pulling out a checkbook, the old man wrote out a check and pressed it into the hands of the young business owner.
“I’ll meet you here in exactly one year and you can pay me back then. I believe you can do it!”
With that the old man slipped away as quickly as he’d come.
The young business owner looked closely at the check. His jaw dropped in disbelief as he realized that it was a check for $500,000 – signed by John D. Rockefeller – at the time, one of the richest men alive!
The young man knew that check would erase his money troubles in an instant! But after thinking about it for a moment, he decided he would put the un-cashed check in his safe for the time being.
Just knowing that he had a check for $50,000 gave him a renewed feeling of optimism and energy about saving his business.
With a huge boost to his confidence, he renegotiated the deals with his vendors to buy some time.
He negotiated with his creditors as well for much lower settlements than what he owed.
Now that he had a little breathing room, he closed several big deals. Within a year, he was back on his feet again and was running a successful business.
Exactly one year from when he met the old man, the young man went to that same park bench. In his hands was the un-cashed check.
Right on time, the old man also arrived at the park bench.
“Dear sir” began the young man as he started to hand over the un-cashed check to the old man. Just then, a nurse came running up behind him.
“I hope he hasn’t been bothering you,” she exclaimed. “He keeps slipping away from the rest home and telling everyone he’s John D. Rockefeller! I’m SO sorry!
With that the nurse led the old man away, leaving the young man completely flabbergasted.
For an entire year, he had been wheeling and dealing with faith and power because he believed he was backed by half a million dollars – given to him by one of the world’s wealthiest men!
Of course, it was simply his renewed sense of confidence that gave him the power to achieve his goals.
Where did this renewed sense of confidence come from?
- Not from more money in the bank.
- Not from a radical change in his skills or talents.
- Not from anything outside of him changing.
His renewed sense of confidence came from the only thing the old man gave him: a new belief which replaced the belief that he was defeated.
This belief was not based on reality. It was not a belief he cultivated nor consciously chose. It was given to him in the form of a useless piece of paper. But because of this belief, he was able to radically change his life.
You just have to stand in awe of the incredible power of beliefs.
Like the young man, most of our beliefs are given to us. We did not choose them. They are hand- me- downs. And we take them for unchangeable truths. But the nature of beliefs is that they can change.
You’re going to believe in something. That’s the nature of who we are as human beings.
The only question you have to ask yourself is this: “Is this belief working for me?”
Today is the first day of Spring, so why not do a little spring cleaning? Ask yourself:
- “What beliefs about myself do I need to rip up and throw away?”
- “What new beliefs about myself do I need to create to get what I want/need?”
- “What beliefs about life don’t work for me anymore?”
- “What beliefs can I create that will give me a happier, more fulfilling experience of life?”
If there are blocks holding you back from what you want, they are usually outdated beliefs. If you need help identifying then and letting them go, give me a call. I believe I can help you.
Ted
Excellent post. I think I’ll print and keep nearby. . . good reminders of what I can do and what I need to change.